Ever ask/been asked those kinds of questions that result in a gut check? I have. Quite a bit recently. Well check out Cerulean Sanctum The "Gut Check" Series. Dan Edelen asks the tough ones. The responses given in the comments are what you would expect. Some echo exactly what you or I are thinking and some are exactly the kind of "knee jerk" response you come to expect. (Not a lot...but some.)
So give it a whirl. Some, after I read them, caused me to just want to pass right on by and not delve any deeper. I saw myself in everyone of them.